Grab your partner, do-si-do!
Life is a dance; whether you have two left feet or..
“Happiness is only real when shared.” -Christopher McCandless
I highly recommend this movie (or book, if you rather) because it resonated with me on many levels. As good as your intentions are, no matter how knowledgeable you may be; life is unpredictable.
What's something you had to learn the "hard way" - but that you're happy you know now?
Not to stew in my own misery.
I had to learn that the hard way.
I had to learn to not to feed the monster.
Conflict with myself.
Fight against my rational mind vs my OCD.
Every little thing bothered me.
They built up rather quick and I had to address every single one.
I took it out on everyone around me too.
I was always on a warpath.
Better brace yourself if you were in my way.
“Hell hath no fury like a woman [scorned].”
You’ve been warned.
Avoid being thorned.
I have not mourned..
who I was.
I have only adorned..
It was easier to just lash out and drink myself into the bottom of a bottle.
I’m happy I recognized I needed help.
And thought it..
all started inside..
Feelings become thoughts.
Thoughts become words.
Words become actions.
Actions become habits.
Habits have consequences.
I learned to follow the trail.
Stop it in its tracks.
I had to be taught how to function properly..
for my own sanity.
If I didn’t enjoy my own company..
why would anybody else?
It took years of therapy, deep digging, and internal reflection to learn how to be alone.
It was scary being by myself and not hate myself every second.
Every second seemed like an hour.
I’m happy to know now that I was worth the trouble.
I deserved a second chance.
A second glance.
A second enhance.
A second romance.
What are the non-negotiable traits that your [future] partner cannot have? What are the things they must have?
Refuses to engage in any sort of PTA
Poor hygiene habits
Strong hatred toward any group of people
Wants a trophy wife
Wants me to be their Mama
Has no room for compromise
Silly sense of humor
Has common sense
Gives constructive criticism
How they treat the wait staff
Likes to play board, card games
Has their own friends/hobbies/interests
Listen = Silent
Not afraid to frolic
The traits I listed above are not for a future partner as the prompt asked because I already have a partner. We’ve been together for four years this upcoming May. Yet, it feels like a lot longer.. in a good way. In the best way, of course! I was also asked: “So, how does your partner compare to the list you wrote?”
I responded without hesitation: “If I had to dream up the ideal partner, Jaimie wouldn’t even compare. He’s more than I ever dreamed of. He set the bar high in teaching me how to be loved; thus helping me love myself.”
“Do you like hanging out with me?”
If you look closely, there’s a bird’s nest in the dinosaur’s mouth!
Sipping on wine, enjoying the view, & singing along to Dean Martin’s “That’s Amore”